To My Husband...

I recently witnessed a horrifying occurrence where a husband was abusing his wife both verbally and physically.  I did what I could to help the poor lady, but unfortunately she got back into the truck and made a decision to remain in her situation.  I have thought about this often and I must say that I am so lucky.  Unfortunately, it took this horrible occurrence to make me realize it fully.   

My husband is one of the most wonderful people I will ever have the pleasure of knowing.  And the best part, I get to grow old with him, as long as life will allow it.  I have met many people throughout my years on earth, both friends and acquaintances, that have made my life that little bit better, but ultimately I actually got to marry my best friend; not many women can say that.  His love and devotion to our family is shown everyday through his motivation to go away to work even though I know it pains him, as much as it does us, that we must be apart for days on end. 

Our paths crossed many years ago and neither of us thought that we’d be living the life we are now.  In fact I am sure it was the furthest thing from both of our minds.  And although it has not always been rainbows and roses, I believe this has made our love stronger, as I know we can get through anything.  To this day I still get butterflies when I know he is coming home, whether he’s gone for the day or 10.  He may not see it, as children and life often get in the line of sight, but those butterflies appear, even more so than they did 12 years ago. 

I love the man he has become and I am thankful every day for his presence in my life.  The once self-absorbed, young-punk that I met (and he was), has turned into an amazing father (when he is allowed to be due to work and distance) and a wonderful husband who takes his role in our family very seriously without batting an eye. I see that “diamond under all this dust” and I am very thankful to the women in his life that did not.

So, hun, I know I do not say or show it often enough, but I love you to the ends of the earth and back.  Thank you for supporting me in all my quirky plans and ideas, no matter how crazy and hair-brained they appear.  And so you know, I would not trade you in; even for Damon Salvatore (even though I say I would lol).  I cannot wait for the time we get to spend with one another in our rockers when we are old and grey “where the green grass grows”.  Thank you, for being you!  I love you and I miss you!

Your Apple Dumpling.